I give up and don't know what to do anymore? (18 and up)?

Hey bro, i can get where you are coming from... I'm not into the club/bar scene either. however you cant just give up on finding love, maybe just stop trying so hard in that area... if you are lonely i recommend starting with something simple like getting a puppy. Plus we all know that pups are a great way to meet ladies. sometimes when we stop actively looking for something is when it then finds us. don't give up hope.